Don’t worry, children! Nana is back with guidance for all your problems and worries. And if that doesn’t help, there’s always liquor.
On to the questions!
My boyfriend skipped Valentine’s Day altogether. He thinks it’s a made-up holiday designed to sell people things, which might be true, but is it so wrong to expect him to show some sign of love on a holiday dedicated to showing signs of love? I feel resentful.
well darling, first i must ask, does he show “signs of love” the rest of the year? is it chocolates and flowers that makes you feel loved? i mean really, there are so many reasons to feel resentful in this life, don’t let this one be one of them. now if he doesn’t give you the chocolates and flowers that you love on your birthday, then i would worry and look elsewhere for love!
if valentine day is that important to you and not to him, cover yourself in chocolate and makehim eat it all off… pooff, no more resentment!
I am in a new relationship with someone who was initially more into kink than I was. I am admittedly vanilla. As we’ve been trying more things (bondage, ropes, spanking etc) it’s becoming more obvious that I am REALLY into kink—there are somethings I’d like to try, but I don’t think she’d be into. Advice?
mmmm, admittedly vanilla… really? already tried bondage, spanking, ropes…. i want to know what the “etc” were.
darling, though i would love to radicalize vanilla, you probably never were, “vanilla.” i’d say you were at least neopolitan. just enjoy all the kinky sex you are having in your new relationship, and please darlings, be safe, it’s all fun and games until someone loses something somewhere dangerous, or loses an eye. and by the way, you might be underestimating your new mate, why would they not want to do some other new things with you, to you? everything tells me you will be pleasantly surprised! ENJOY!
I am one of those unfortunate people who moved across the country for their significant other. Now that we’ve broken up I feel like crap because all of our friends were mutual (as in his). Should I give up my job/flat etc and just move home?
oh sweet soul, shit happens as they say in english… firstly i am sorry and hope that you do what is best for your emotional and
physical health. however, what we do in these situations can go a long way in this life. we can either make lemonades out of lemons, or make everyone’s (especially our own) lives as complicated and painful as possible.
so, how crucial is your job to your future and present? is your flat a rental? is the breakup is final? depending on your answers, you might want to try a third place, not home, not across the country, but a third place where you can make your own friends and break old patterns instead of hearts.
you will be happy again, choose wisely, this will change your life forever! good luck darling.
I just started dating a girl who I really like. About a week ago I met some of her best friends for the first time, and one of them is a girl I had previously had really hot, no-strings-attached sex with . It was awkward because we pretended not to know each other, rather than explain our connection. Now what? Do I admit that we do in fact know each other, and tell my girlfriend how? Or do I keep silent and hope the other girl does too?
that’s a good one. it is interesting that you both pretended not to know eachother… mmm… why the mystery unless you are afraid of something or someone’s reaction. fear is never a good thing in my book, unless it enhances your present sex life with your girlfriend. if your sex life and relationship is respectful and realistic, you will already know what tramps you’ve been in your pasts and move on!
i would say tell your girlfriend about the hot sex you had with one of her friends, before someone else does… because one thing about women sweetheart, WE TALK, and that can be more dangerous and complicating then not telling. of course, then have the hottest, strings-and-ropes-attached sex with her… good luck!
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